Amigos to até com vergonha acho que bebi demais ontem rsss mais nao deu certo…onde sera qyue to errando:
tela1
[code]package teste;
public class tela1 extends javax.swing.JFrame {
/** Creates new form tela1 */
public tela1() {
    initComponents();
}
@SuppressWarnings("unchecked")
// <editor-fold defaultstate="collapsed" desc="Generated Code">
private void initComponents() {
    jTextField1 = new javax.swing.JTextField();
    jButton2 = new javax.swing.JButton();
    setDefaultCloseOperation(javax.swing.WindowConstants.EXIT_ON_CLOSE);
    jTextField1.setText("jTextField1");
    jButton2.setText("jButton2");
    jButton2.addActionListener(new java.awt.event.ActionListener() {
        public void actionPerformed(java.awt.event.ActionEvent evt) {
            jButton2ActionPerformed(evt);
        }
    });
    javax.swing.GroupLayout layout = new javax.swing.GroupLayout(getContentPane());
    getContentPane().setLayout(layout);
    layout.setHorizontalGroup(
        layout.createParallelGroup(javax.swing.GroupLayout.Alignment.LEADING)
        .addGroup(layout.createSequentialGroup()
            .addGap(161, 161, 161)
            .addComponent(jTextField1, javax.swing.GroupLayout.PREFERRED_SIZE, javax.swing.GroupLayout.DEFAULT_SIZE, javax.swing.GroupLayout.PREFERRED_SIZE)
            .addContainerGap(180, Short.MAX_VALUE))
        .addGroup(javax.swing.GroupLayout.Alignment.TRAILING, layout.createSequentialGroup()
            .addContainerGap(259, Short.MAX_VALUE)
            .addComponent(jButton2)
            .addGap(68, 68, 68))
    );
    layout.setVerticalGroup(
        layout.createParallelGroup(javax.swing.GroupLayout.Alignment.LEADING)
        .addGroup(layout.createSequentialGroup()
            .addGap(126, 126, 126)
            .addComponent(jTextField1, javax.swing.GroupLayout.PREFERRED_SIZE, javax.swing.GroupLayout.DEFAULT_SIZE, javax.swing.GroupLayout.PREFERRED_SIZE)
            .addGap(103, 103, 103)
            .addComponent(jButton2)
            .addContainerGap(28, Short.MAX_VALUE))
    );
    pack();
}// </editor-fold>
private void jButton2ActionPerformed(java.awt.event.ActionEvent evt) {
    tela2 f = new tela2();
    jTextField1.setText(f.MetodoAtualizaCamposDaTela());
}
public static void main(String args[]) {
    java.awt.EventQueue.invokeLater(new Runnable() {
        public void run() {
            new tela1().setVisible(true);
        }
    });
}
// Variables declaration - do not modify
private javax.swing.JButton jButton2;
private javax.swing.JTextField jTextField1;
// End of variables declaration
}
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tela 2
package teste;
public class tela2 extends javax.swing.JFrame {
    public tela2() {
        initComponents();
    }
    public String MetodoAtualizaCamposDaTela() {
        String texto = jTextField1.getText();
        return texto;
    }
    @SuppressWarnings("unchecked")
    // <editor-fold defaultstate="collapsed" desc="Generated Code">
    private void initComponents() {
        jTextField1 = new javax.swing.JTextField();
        jButton1 = new javax.swing.JButton();
        jButton2 = new javax.swing.JButton();
        setDefaultCloseOperation(javax.swing.WindowConstants.DISPOSE_ON_CLOSE);
        jTextField1.setText("jTextField1");
        jButton1.setText("jButton1");
        jButton1.addActionListener(new java.awt.event.ActionListener() {
            public void actionPerformed(java.awt.event.ActionEvent evt) {
                jButton1ActionPerformed(evt);
            }
        });
        jButton2.setText("jButton2");
        jButton2.addActionListener(new java.awt.event.ActionListener() {
            public void actionPerformed(java.awt.event.ActionEvent evt) {
                jButton2ActionPerformed(evt);
            }
        });
        javax.swing.GroupLayout layout = new javax.swing.GroupLayout(getContentPane());
        getContentPane().setLayout(layout);
        layout.setHorizontalGroup(
            layout.createParallelGroup(javax.swing.GroupLayout.Alignment.LEADING)
            .addGroup(layout.createSequentialGroup()
                .addGap(149, 149, 149)
                .addComponent(jTextField1, javax.swing.GroupLayout.PREFERRED_SIZE, javax.swing.GroupLayout.DEFAULT_SIZE, javax.swing.GroupLayout.PREFERRED_SIZE)
                .addContainerGap(192, Short.MAX_VALUE))
            .addGroup(javax.swing.GroupLayout.Alignment.TRAILING, layout.createSequentialGroup()
                .addContainerGap(214, Short.MAX_VALUE)
                .addComponent(jButton1)
                .addGap(113, 113, 113))
            .addGroup(javax.swing.GroupLayout.Alignment.TRAILING, layout.createSequentialGroup()
                .addContainerGap(258, Short.MAX_VALUE)
                .addComponent(jButton2)
                .addGap(69, 69, 69))
        );
        layout.setVerticalGroup(
            layout.createParallelGroup(javax.swing.GroupLayout.Alignment.LEADING)
            .addGroup(layout.createSequentialGroup()
                .addGap(30, 30, 30)
                .addComponent(jButton2)
                .addGap(66, 66, 66)
                .addComponent(jTextField1, javax.swing.GroupLayout.PREFERRED_SIZE, javax.swing.GroupLayout.DEFAULT_SIZE, javax.swing.GroupLayout.PREFERRED_SIZE)
                .addGap(56, 56, 56)
                .addComponent(jButton1)
                .addContainerGap(82, Short.MAX_VALUE))
        );
        pack();
    }// </editor-fold>
    private void jButton1ActionPerformed(java.awt.event.ActionEvent evt) {
        MetodoAtualizaCamposDaTela();
        dispose();
    }
    private void jButton2ActionPerformed(java.awt.event.ActionEvent evt) {
    }
    public static void main(String args[]) {
        java.awt.EventQueue.invokeLater(new Runnable() {
            public void run() {
                new tela2().setVisible(true);
            }
        });
    }
    // Variables declaration - do not modify
    private javax.swing.JButton jButton1;
    private javax.swing.JButton jButton2;
    private javax.swing.JTextField jTextField1;
    // End of variables declaration
}