Alexsandra,
O flex não tem que ler esse arquivo. Você não vai usa-lo do lado cliente.
Anexo, os meus arquivos. Dá pra se basear um pouco.
web.xml
<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?>
<web-app xmlns:xsi="http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema-instance"
xmlns="http://java.sun.com/xml/ns/javaee" xmlns:web="http://java.sun.com/xml/ns/javaee/web-app_2_5.xsd"
xsi:schemaLocation="http://java.sun.com/xml/ns/javaee http://java.sun.com/xml/ns/javaee/web-app_2_5.xsd"
id="AlfrescoAdapterService" version="2.5">
<display-name>AlfrescoAdapterService</display-name>
<!-- Http Flex Session attribute and binding listener support -->
<listener>
<listener-class>flex.messaging.HttpFlexSession</listener-class>
</listener>
<!-- Listener for services startup in app -->
<listener>
<listener-class>
br.com.flexdoc.alfrescoadapter.service.utils.ServletContextListenerImpl</listener-class>
</listener>
<!-- MessageBroker Servlet -->
<servlet>
<servlet-name>MessageBrokerServlet</servlet-name>
<servlet-class>flex.messaging.MessageBrokerServlet</servlet-class>
<init-param>
<param-name>services.configuration.file</param-name>
<param-value>/WEB-INF/flex/services-config.xml</param-value>
</init-param>
<load-on-startup>1</load-on-startup>
</servlet>
<servlet-mapping>
<servlet-name>MessageBrokerServlet</servlet-name>
<url-pattern>/messagebroker/*</url-pattern>
</servlet-mapping>
<welcome-file-list>
<welcome-file>index.html</welcome-file>
<welcome-file>index.htm</welcome-file>
<welcome-file>index.jsp</welcome-file>
<welcome-file>default.html</welcome-file>
<welcome-file>default.htm</welcome-file>
<welcome-file>default.jsp</welcome-file>
</welcome-file-list>
</web-app>
messaging-config.xml
<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?>
<service id="message-service" class="flex.messaging.services.MessageService">
<adapters>
<adapter-definition id="actionscript"
class="flex.messaging.services.messaging.adapters.ActionScriptAdapter"
default="true" />
</adapters>
</service>
proxy-config.xml
<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?>
<service id="proxy-service" class="flex.messaging.services.HTTPProxyService">
<properties>
<connection-manager>
<max-total-connections>100</max-total-connections>
<default-max-connections-per-host>2</default-max-connections-per-host>
</connection-manager>
<allow-lax-ssl>true</allow-lax-ssl>
</properties>
<adapters>
<adapter-definition id="http-proxy"
class="flex.messaging.services.http.HTTPProxyAdapter" default="true" />
<adapter-definition id="soap-proxy"
class="flex.messaging.services.http.SOAPProxyAdapter" />
</adapters>
<default-channels>
<channel ref="my-amf" />
</default-channels>
<destination id="DefaultHTTP">
</destination>
</service>
remoting-config.xml
<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?>
<service id="remoting-service" class="flex.messaging.services.RemotingService">
<adapters>
<adapter-definition id="java-object"
class="flex.messaging.services.remoting.adapters.JavaAdapter"
default="true" />
</adapters>
<default-channels>
<channel ref="my-secure-amf" />
</default-channels>
<default-security-constraint ref="sample-users" />
<destination id="SeuServicoPeloFlex">
<properties>
<source>
pacote.AclasseDeservico
</source>
</properties>
</destination>
</service>
services-config.xml
<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?>
<services-config>
<services>
<service-include file-path="remoting-config.xml" />
<service-include file-path="proxy-config.xml" />
<service-include file-path="messaging-config.xml" />
</services>
<security>
<login-command class="flex.messaging.security.TomcatLoginCommand" server="JBoss">
<per-client-authentication>false</per-client-authentication>
</login-command>
<!-- Uncomment the correct app server
<login-command class="flex.messaging.security.TomcatLoginCommand" server="JBoss">
<login-command class="flex.messaging.security.TomcatLoginCommand" server="Tomcat"/>
<login-command class="flex.messaging.security.JRunLoginCommand" server="JRun"/>
<login-command class="flex.messaging.security.WeblogicLoginCommand" server="Weblogic"/>
<login-command class="flex.messaging.security.WebSphereLoginCommand" server="WebSphere"/>
-->
<security-constraint id="sample-users">
<auth-method>Basic</auth-method>
<roles>
<role>ScrumDeveloper</role>
<!--<role>accountants</role>
<role>employees</role>
<role>managers</role>
-->
</roles>
</security-constraint>
</security>
<channels>
<channel-definition id="my-amf" class="mx.messaging.channels.AMFChannel">
<endpoint url="http://{server.name}:{server.port}/{context.root}/messagebroker/amf" class="flex.messaging.endpoints.AMFEndpoint"/>
</channel-definition>
<channel-definition id="my-secure-amf" class="mx.messaging.channels.SecureAMFChannel">
<endpoint url="https://{server.name}:{server.port}/{context.root}/messagebroker/amfsecure" class="flex.messaging.endpoints.SecureAMFEndpoint"/>
<properties>
<add-no-cache-headers>false</add-no-cache-headers>
</properties>
</channel-definition>
<channel-definition id="my-polling-amf" class="mx.messaging.channels.AMFChannel">
<endpoint url="http://{server.name}:{server.port}/{context.root}/messagebroker/amfpolling" class="flex.messaging.endpoints.AMFEndpoint"/>
<properties>
<polling-enabled>true</polling-enabled>
<polling-interval-seconds>4</polling-interval-seconds>
</properties>
</channel-definition>
<channel-definition id="my-streaming-amf" class="mx.messaging.channels.StreamingAMFChannel">
<endpoint url="http://{server.name}:{server.port}/{context.root}/messagebroker/streamingamf" class="flex.messaging.endpoints.StreamingAMFEndpoint" />
<properties>
<idle-timeout-minutes>0</idle-timeout-minutes>
<max-streaming-clients>10</max-streaming-clients>
<server-to-client-heartbeat-millis>30000</server-to-client-heartbeat-millis>
<user-agent-settings>
<user-agent match-on="MSIE" kickstart-bytes="2048" max-streaming-connections-per-session="3" />
<user-agent match-on="Firefox" kickstart-bytes="2048" max-streaming-connections-per-session="3" />
</user-agent-settings>
</properties>
</channel-definition>
<!--
<channel-definition id="my-http" class="mx.messaging.channels.HTTPChannel">
<endpoint url="http://{server.name}:{server.port}/{context.root}/messagebroker/http" class="flex.messaging.endpoints.HTTPEndpoint"/>
</channel-definition>
<channel-definition id="my-secure-http" class="mx.messaging.channels.SecureHTTPChannel">
<endpoint url="https://{server.name}:{server.port}/{context.root}/messagebroker/httpsecure" class="flex.messaging.endpoints.SecureHTTPEndpoint"/>
<properties>
<add-no-cache-headers>false</add-no-cache-headers>
</properties>
</channel-definition>
-->
</channels>
<logging>
<target class="flex.messaging.log.ConsoleTarget" level="Debug">
<properties>
<prefix>[BlazeDS] </prefix>
<includeDate>true</includeDate>
<includeTime>true</includeTime>
<includeLevel>true</includeLevel>
<includeCategory>true</includeCategory>
</properties>
<filters>
<pattern>Endpoint.*</pattern>
<pattern>Service.*</pattern>
<pattern>Configuration</pattern>
</filters>
</target>
</logging>
<system>
<redeploy>
<enabled>false</enabled>
<!--
<watch-interval>20</watch-interval>
<watch-file>{context.root}/WEB-INF/flex/services-config.xml</watch-file>
<watch-file>{context.root}/WEB-INF/flex/proxy-config.xml</watch-file>
<watch-file>{context.root}/WEB-INF/flex/remoting-config.xml</watch-file>
<watch-file>{context.root}/WEB-INF/flex/messaging-config.xml</watch-file>
<watch-file>{context.root}/WEB-INF/flex/data-management-config.xml</watch-file>
<touch-file>{context.root}/WEB-INF/web.xml</touch-file>
-->
</redeploy>
</system>
</services-config>
Não se esqueça de jogar as libs (flex-messaging, etc, tudo o que tiver o nome flex e ser um JAR, voce encontra dentro do blazeds) dentro do seu diretório de libs do servidor de aplicação. Tem que ser lá, não adianta jogar no projeto.
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